consummate - Dictionary definition and meaning for word consummate
if you want to consume your mate(wife), you have to be complete 'a complete man- raymonds :P'
con+summit(....the highest point of something)....and now imagine a person who has reached the highest point of perfection,is truly a complete man.
Only consume things which are complete.
Summate means total, totality....something which is complete or perfect
CON = with + SUMMIT is the top of the mountain = with the top of the mountain = CON SUMMIT.