BLANDISHMENT- Remember it like Brandy to an Irish women, this is like a flattery and later u can get wht u want frm the IRISH woman
bland (mild) - wen ur bland wid someone u try to flatter
BLAN (like PLAN) + DISH (food) = PLAN a DISH to FLATTER somebody...
U r are blonde---come,come.
blandishment = blan (blank) + dish;he has served you blank dish by flattery.