blandish - Dictionary definition and meaning for word blandish
When someone is bland, they must flatter others and not be themselves to get others to like them.
sounds like BLONDE-ish ---> ur try to 'flatter' a gul by praising her
blandish = bland+ dish. you saying to a girl instead its not bland dish, its very tasty just to praise her
summing all those up, when you come across a blondeish girl you suddenly look really blandish compared to the blondish so you have to truly become a "bland" and blandish to her in order to win her over